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If you don’t already have my deets, leave a comment x If you want to enlighten me and help me understand this further, please hit me up. I got thinking, why? Why do people do the most unnecessary things, say the sweetest things, drop the corniest lines, just to experience this thrill? Is it the “will they/won’t they thing”? Is it a thing where one builds up a fantasy of the person and that spurs them on? Or could it be the seeming impossibility of the situation? You know the more difficult it is, the higher the “reward”? Listen, I’d love to understand the rationale behind this. I find it interesting that the example points out that the action/desire was born not out of necessity or even want, but just for the thrill.
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An example is given, the phrase is used very aptly in context “He craved power over others, not so much for its own sake as for the thrill of the chase”. So what exactly is this “thrill of the chase”? The Cambridge dictionary defines it as “the excitement that you feel when you are trying to find something or achieve something difficult”. I’m concentrating on “the thrill” though. Other answers varied from people just not having the ability to communicate properly to the mindset/intention behind moving to the person in the first place to people just being deceitful. In fact, one person said “Lions don’t keep hunting after they have gotten the prey, they relax and eat” and I found that very interesting. Howeverrrrrrr, at least 70% of the feedback I got when I asked was that the decline was due to the “thrill of the chase” fading. I had come to this conclusion/understanding through personal experience and moving forward, it’s been something I watch out for, so as to be wary. You finallyyyy get that guy you’ve been crushing on and you think to yourself “ahh there’s no need to be speaking frequently or there’s no need to reassure him about this guy”. You eventually get that babe you’ve been eyeing for the longest and you think to yourself, “I have her now, there’s no need to apply pressure anymore”. Personally, I was/am of the opinion that the major cause of this change/decline was the fact that people get comfortable, QUICK. But I had noticed a pattern, a pattern I was not particularly comfortable with so I decided to ask questions and try to understand why this decline occurs and what causes it. I’m on you like white on rice when I’m into you, three years down the line or five. Like I said earlier, this had always confused me because I’m the opposite. The energy the typical individual uses to move to someone is often significantly lower when said individual gets with whoever they were moving to. The question is “Why is it that energy seems so difficult to maintain?”, the context here being relationships and romantic endeavours. You see, this question had been plaguing me for days because it is a phenomenon I struggled to understand. I asked a question today and the responses I’ve gotten so far have been veryyy illuminating.